This is my opinion piece on this subject.
I find that most of the people in this thread at times are some of the biggest Grepolis bullies on the internet or cyber world. There are many reasons for this and I will share my point of view on why this cease-fire is wrong.
First off there is no awareness being made. Who is Amanda Todd? I had to web search it to find out. From the looks of it not only is this a case of cyber bullying but also extremely bad parenting or lack thereof.
Thugalo started this thread from a parent perspective but only from a fear stand point, he did not step up to educate us and protect anyone. He also sat back and allowed many people to claim that whoever doesn’t follow this cease-fire will be retaliated against. Majority should rule with the minorities’ interest. As an uncle I make sure I monitor my family member’s online activity and steer the young minds in the right direction. Thugalo, I do respect your position and that is why I am writing this I want to expand this subject and share more material on how we as players and people can better the cyber world and ourselves, thus creating a greater planet to live on for all.
Let’s take a look at what causes bullying; Institutions, Families, Cultures, Ones Personal experience, having power, provocative victims, and more. More times than not this comes about from someone demanding respect but not respecting another, you can see this any many threads on this forum.
You can also look at the Nuremberg Trials for some answers on this too. We all have been raised with obedience to authority or authority complex. When the Nazis went to trial for killing the Jews, many soldiers claimed I was just following orders as their defense. This denfense was not allowed, we all make our or decisions or do we. The authority complex is also ingrained in humans on the animal side. Ever heard stories or witness someone getting beat up and a large group just standing around and watching. As humans we do as a group does. If one person starts to act then the group will start to change. This is something that is good to share with others and teach young people.
This is also a war game on the internet and power conquers the weak. I get that its an internet game and thus cyber world, Yet Amanda Todd was a social website, one that her parents would continue to allow her to log into. They had the smarts to move her to different schools, but never went to and dealt with the actual problem. Getting on social media sites, taking the names of the individuals that were bullying her and talking with the parents of those children, or so it seems from the web searches I am came across. So, I agree with some that this is not the place for it. If you wanted to respect and honor victims, then I would recommend taking a vacation mode day and doing just that. There are over 4,000 people playing in this World and over 2,000 alliances. Most don’t look at the forums and most are not even informed of this or that it is going on. But a lot of people say let’s take them out if they attack on this noble day. Take vacation mode, go out into the world and interact with people. Open doors, help people, tell a joke, and many other acts of kindness. But get into the real world and make the change and honor those who you seek to honor.
Better parenting is needed, like one person suggested on this thread and others thought this person was way off base. It is a nice gesture to have a moment of silence for someone or the dead. But being apathetic and just being quiet or in silence will not change why this happened. Education and awareness will. This cease-fire does bring awareness, but does not help educate anyone on how to prevent this.
From a parenting side or family member side it is best to be a part of your family to be nosey, ask questions and support the youth of your town. Wisdom is only wise when it is shared.
What I hope people will do with this cease-fire over the next 24 hours is bring about conversation with others on this thread, in their neighborhoods and generate ideas of how to make the world more kind and create safety for the weak. I personally use this game as an outlet for violence or anger or frustration in day to day life. Which in turns allows me to be a more stress free and kinder person in my world and neighborhood; this is why I am burned that now I am forced by a few elites in this game to not play a game. That is truly what this is a game, I personally have no obligation to it, yet I enjoy the game.
I also hope that many who read this think about some of the posts they have made in this thread and others. For I have read many times where people bicker and take shots at each other, many times to the point where the Moderator will delete posts and ask people to chill out and not be so personal in there statements.
Thank you for your time,
with regards and respect,
ConkeyDong.
I wish you all the best and a safe Halloween.