This is a lovely conversation. Domusdei, have you looked at the rankings for alliances in your ocean? get in touch with the top ones and see what they are all about. Or start your own, and begin conquering your ocean. I'm more that certain that you'll find others in your ocean willing to join you on your crusade.
Tyrion is right mate, and dont settle if i was you, look for an alliance that represents what you want out of the game, im in it for fun thats why im in TMNT