I have no issues with helping a friend,and am not in a position to judge you. I feel each person is accountable for their own actions. I am only stating my own opinions and pointing out that this may not put you in a favorable light with some people. If you notice most of the larger alliances and players are civil unless given cause not to be. I have dealt with bullies on the game and personally I am patient and have paid one back and the person I am referring to was larger then me but has lost 4 cities, two to me personally because I am returning the favor. Its also not done yet.