I don't know how to dramatize this, so it'll be plain...
I started playing on kappa about 3 years back. The server was already half mature and my 1st city was in ocean 47... these days servers barely last that long. I guess for a new player starting on the rim is pretty good as they can grow on their own sweet pace and understand what is this about. I was rejected by the number 1 alliance of the ocean since I was only 500 points against their requirement of 2000 points, so I started my own alliance (instead of playing for a week to grow to 2k points, lol). I named the alliance Rising Stars and followed the purest form of MRA policy... invited everyone without them asking for it... but ensured that I regularly kicked out inactives. It worked pretty well and the alliance went on to become ranked 1 in 3 oceans, including crushing the alliance that rejected me. Slowly, I learned the game, pacted with other decent pack around there- Fat Camp and we went on to crush large empires and pushed towards the core (even when it was morale inactive server). Due to RL issues, I quit the server after 8 months, but I pretty much covered up my late start of 3 or so months by entering into top 15 with 90+ towns when I quit... even conquered quite a few cities from the ranked 1 alliance which later went on to take the crown.
Then on I played 2-3 months in 2 servers - Xi and Psi. I had quit Xi due to fallout with an extremely headstrong leadership and Psi due to RL getting busy (around the same time I quit kappa). After a long time, when RL gave me a breather again, I joined Gela on the rim. It was fun for a while, but when morale started coming to play and I could barely attack anyone on the rim, it became boring so I joined Paros after seeing daizan announcing that his premade will enter this world.
My Paros story, some guys in Venom know it... I would like to post my side of the story for players from other alliances at some point. Right now the post is already long to keep people's interest so I'll shut up