You haven't seen me due to the holiday weekend. I have been away from the game as well over the weekend. I do get your plan it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out you want to keep me from getting a second city to make it easier to rim me. So this time i put nothing in the forum, and told nobody that i was sending a colony ship until after it was in the city. I will find your spy, and when i do i will rim them myself.
So I guess your plan to keep me limited to one city has failed. The good point about multiple failed attempts is i have the culture for a third city as well. As soon as my colony ship that is in queue is done it will be in the water as well.