Flaming A quick definition for our Dear Mr Toast..
Flaming is a hostile and insulting interaction between internet users. Usually occuring in the social context of a discussion board.
Deliberate flaming is carried out by individuals known as 'flamers' these users specialize in targeting specific aspects of a controversial conversation. And are more subtle than their counterparts known as 'trolls' who are less 'professional' and write obvious and blunt remarks to incite a flame war as opposed to the more subtle, yet precise flamers
Seeing as neither The Iceman nor TW shadow have come here to discuss the other side of this story I don't see this as qualifying as a "Discussion" and making flaming near impossible..
As I have not been "Hostile" In any way nor have I insulted anyone. (Albiet the thought has crossed my mind) I do not see how you can claim this to be flaming..
However If this indeed is an instance of me "flaming" TW shadow, then I suppose that would leave only one position for you to fill.?
If you would like or need more information on flaming I got my definition from
http://http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flaming_(Internet)