Sure. They were alliances number 1 (SM) and 2 (Paragon) with very capable players and good distance in both City Points/BPs Averages from the rest during beginning. And finishing like this, alone, without friends, ringed, and with the same stats like Enigma had - looks like a long-term leadership fail for me.
Or a huge attrition....
No alliance lost more GOOD players due to leaving the game than Paragon and then SM did...
Thing is Enigma kept lying and lying in our face... while talking to us on skype they had intentions to NOT tell us things... Even after Timmy discovered Loxias he tried to deny it at first.
1. Graffio wanted to merge with SM at some point and Livitius said no (Enigma said no) then he invited them...
2. Heardred was kicked and ''rimmed'' from SM and 55 but due to him having 1 city in 65 SM did not strike him down, instead Enigma INVITED him in ranks and when Joey explained them and asked them to rim him, it took them 4 months of LYING again about having their plans of rimming them and NOT rimming them...
3. Loxias Apollo whatever his business was, was invited to takeover 1 of Enigmas accounts (no problem) but ofcourse a player whose intentions inside Paragon were foggy to say the least (even if i believed him), was hidden from us ON PURPOSE by Livitus and Enigma again.
Then Joey went mad (can you blame him) Enigma only talked and talked, they never did anything when they were asked to do (regarding above mentioned things) heardred being the most standing out thing... Can you find 1 similar thing with SM? We always did our share and when Enigma was not ok with something, Joey did not do 1 sided decisions... he wanted to invite Graffios guys in SM Livitius said no, and he instantly declined...
I was always a voice of reason being a co-founder in Paragon and then a leader in SM. I always voiced my opinions in reasonable manners and tried to settle things when Orestes went ''crazy'' and same when Joey decided something... The fact is Enigma and Livitius together with Pablito and everyone else in that room on skype
continuously lied to us and they could've easily merged with us and show 1 gesture of good will in their WHOLE history. They not only decided to NOT do that, they did not even had ba*ls to tell us that. Instead they had to run to their ''enemies''.
Being a founder in alliance is a matter of prestige and a matter of trust... If we could not trust anyone, because in their whole time they did
nothing to earn it, then we could not give up such important ability inside Alliance hierarchy. Enigma thought having the same or a little more/little less points/DBP/ABP/BP <insert whatever you want> grants them the
RIGHTS of a founder rank. You do know founder can simply disband us and/or kicks us all out right? Who says they would not do that and join with TBA all the same way?
And as FuglyMaria says... yes 1,5 year of gaming inside Grepolis is a ''tough'' feat even with not obtaining a crown. But in the end its better to lose than win with liars. Some of us hold our principles higher than some dirty lying. I have made many great friends with which I will keep contact long after I am gone from Olympia but I will never remember the liars after that...
The thing that ''hurts'' is the feeling I get that Enigma genuinely thinks they did nothing wrong (despite words from Livitius that he knows he did something wrong which could very well be ... well another LIE)... Even when we found out about Loxias and reminded them about heardred STILL not being kicked they did not kick him instatly to altleast ease the ''crisis''... They kept talking and talking like they WANTED to not play with us anymore.
Also Fuglymaria dont be smart again on forums... your past actions and epic success in Titans shows your ability of ''leadership'' so if I were you, I would be quiet about who failed as a leader and who did not... I mean where are the Titans now?
The fact that we changed the merge ''rules'' is purely their fault of not doing anything to ''earn'' the trust, just like us not having a back-up plan is purely our fault. The failure Joey and SM leadership did was they/WE genuinely believed Enigma will correct their mistakes finally. Then again We should not expect such thing from a bunch of well... liars...
Enjoy the win!